Nearly everyday I post to my followers and more than half of the time, my posts are read with very little or no interaction…
I often do wander why you would follow someone to not interact with them. It seems its a FOMO situation ( fear of missing out)…
My husband and I have CHOSEN to share our pregnancy 🤰🏾
Remember, it’s his child too so therefore, he is the ONLY person that I need to be answerable to….
I understand the excitement of a pregnancy announcement but please, if you don’t usually private message me to ask questions about my life in general, if I’m ok etc, please do not private message me asking what you want about my pregnancy.
For us to share with you is tough enough after everything we’ve been through so please, respect that.
If you’ve ever lost a child and then gone on to have more children, you’ll know that it’s one of the most nerve-wracking things that a women can go through. My husband included. Equally as hard for the dad’s.
We will be sharing what WE feel we’d like to and it’s not up for negotiation and it’s not secrecy. Not sharing all of your private business is not keeping secrets 😂 Like, really???? 🤔
So yes, to conclude, if I or my husband do not interact with you in that way and now I’m receiving questions because you are curious and WANT answers, they will be read but not answered if we feel they are more nosey than concern.
Having more children after loss will never change the fact that we are bereaved parents who are going through an anxious time with each new pregnancy so please be respectful and just be honoured at the fact that we chose to share at all!
Only God owns the rights to my life. To HIM, I am forever thankful and to HIM, I owe everything 🙌🏾